Sorry
I have become so terrible at posting. So much has been going on here, and there
is so much I want to share with you! I will start off with a story (since I
haven’t really posted one of those in like, a year).
The
other day I built a stone house with a bunch of the younger kids for one of the
dogs here on the orphanage. I figured it would be a good idea to start teaching
the little ones practical skills (actually, I’ve just really felt like building
stuff the last few days, so the day before we built a traditional-style wood
home [minus the mud] as a doll house, and when someone mentioned that they were
glad I was teaching practical skills, I figured I’d run with the excuse and
take it a step further with the stone dog house). Anywho, we used old blocks
from when they reconstructed the girls’ dorm, and a couple of the boys even
tiled the floor. We took a break for lunch, and in the afternoon when I went to
go back, one of the boys, Phiwa, said he had finished it. He told me he
finished tiling and put on the roof. Now, Phiwa is a grade three boy that has
had a rough life and has a lot of problems and bad behavior, so I
was very excited to see him proud of himself.
“You
did?” I kept walking to where we built the house.
He
smiled and nodded
“Is
is awesome?”
“I
duuno.”
I
wasn’t sure if he knew what awesome meant, so I clarified, “I mean, does it
look nice? Did you do a good job?”
He
stopped. “I dunno.”
I
stopped to face him. “Well, did you do a good job or a bad job?”
His
expression dropped. He grabbed his face and began hitting his head with his
fist, “I did a bad job! I did a bad job!” he screamed.
My
heart sunk and I stepped forward to stop him. I put my hand on his little
shoulder and as calmly as I could, told him, “Come on Phiwa, how about you come
and show me the house. I will tell you if I think you did a good job.” I moved
his hand down to his side and walked the rest of the way with my arm around his
shoulder. I could feel his adrenaline. His eyes full of fear.
When
we rounded the corner to see the house he stopped and watched me. I jumped in
the air, beaming. “PHIWA?! You did this?? You did such a wonderful job! WOW!” I
gave him a big hug and continued, “Oh my gosh! Look at how sturdy that roof is!
This looks absolutely fantastic! MotoMoto (the dog) is going to be so warm and
dry in here!”
He
stepped forward with his goofy grin. “And I finished the tiling inside!”
“You
did?!” I got down on my hands and knees to look in, “Oh my gosh, Phiwa! You did
such a fantastic job!” A few other kids had gathered. “Ok, guys stand behind
the house so I can take your picture with it!” Phiwa showed me every aspect of
the house including the little porch he made with sticks and a plastic-bag
awning to keep MotoMoto dry and warm inside the house. One of the other boys
chimed in that he helped with the tiling, and when Phiwa tried to deny him, I
praised both of them for how well they worked together. By the time I finished
smothering them with praise for their hard work, teamwork, and creativity, I
left Phiwa in a smiley-daze.
Later,
when I saw him in the kitchen, he seemed to be cowering a bit, interacting with
the other boys. “Hey,” I said in my mock-serious voice, “Construction worker,
come here.”
He
lowered his head and stepped over.
I
smiled at him, “I am so proud of you today. Can I have a hug?”
What
Phiwa did surprised the heck out of me. A little grade 3 boy who wouldn’t have
shaken my hand when I first moved here - he lunged at my middle and squeezed
the breath out of me. He held me so tight rocking back and forth. I swear we
hugged for a minute at least. He even let me kiss him on the forehead. “I am
so, so proud of you Phiwa,” I whispered.
He
asked to help me in my next task, and we ran to begin together doing high-knees
all the way across the orphanage shouting “High! High! High!” and laughing.
Phiwa has a long road ahead of him, but seeing and feeling that pride he had in
himself, seeing him so eager to do more good things... that just reaffirmed for
me so much why I am here and gave me so much hope. Thank you, Phiwa!
Day Camp
A
couple weeks ago was my biggest project to date on the orphanage. I put on a
“day camp” for the kids for their first week of school holiday. 12 Peace Corps
volunteers came over the course of six days to teach the kids 1.5 hour courses.
We had everything from Understanding Feelings (with an emphasis on grief and
loss - that was my session) and Stress Management, to Healthy Relationships in
the Swazi Culture, an Environment session, Creative Writing, Dance, Painting,
melting plastic bags into wallets, Kickball, Volleyball, making tambourines,
Photography, you name it! I had about 35 kids participate in the whole thing,
and it was awesome! We even did a Harlem Shake video! (I had no idea what that
was, but Taylor, another PCV, had the idea and the kids LOVED it! Check it out!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1k1-41thaE) I really
think it was about as big of a success as it could be for me never having done
anything like it before. I certainly learned a lot, and so did the kids who
keep asking me when volunteers will come back and teach them more.
Swear-In
The
next group of Peace Corps Volunteers arrived at the end of June, and last week
they completed their training. Like us, they had a lovely swear-in ceremony
which my whole group attended. It was fun to get dressed up (and DELICIOUS -
the buffet was more than enough to knock me out for a couple hours of
sleep/digestion) and cool to meet the new gang. We took them out to The Pub in
Ezulwini and partied it up in true Peace Corps fashion to the wee hours
(strictly due to the obligation of tradition, of course). I also spent a little
bit of time with my buddy Kerry last week who is leaving Swaziland to go back
to the states on September 16th [heartbreak] so It was a great couple weeks.
Now. This week? Umhlanga (the Reed Dance Ceremony) and Kruger Park!!! Will I
ever get to slow down? I have realized the answer is - No. Sleep is for the
dead.
I have heaps of pictures to share with you, but my internet does not allow it. And after this week in Kruger I will hopefully have more, so expect LOTS of pictures in the near (relative to my current posting frequency) future!