Hello again!
So, I had a horrible low point the other night I thought I probably ought to share... actually I probably oughtn’t share this, but it happened, and I feel the need to share it in order to truly illustrate the struggles I am facing here:
I went to the city for groceries and made a big American dinner for my family the other night. Garlic mashed potatoes, peas and carrots, baked beans, blah blah blah. Then I did some homework for training while watching Swazi country music videos with my family and the evening started getting away from me. By the time I washed all of the dinner dishes in a bucket on the floor it was well after 11pm and I had yet to “bathe” in a different small bucket. Now, mind you, I had never been up this late before in Swaziland. I was tired and not in the best mind. I didn’t want to wait for water to boil, so I decided to wash in cold water (not a big deal, I do this all the time because I don’t like to waste gas since I have no idea how I will get my gas canister to Matsapa and home again when I run out). This is when it happened. I stood in the middle of my room, soap crackling in my ears, shivering (it is winter here and, while it by no means compares to Iowa, it still gets rather cold under a tin roof), staring at the puddle of soapy water in bottom of the bucket. I had washed from the neck up, and it was nearing midnight. Do I really need to wash my armpits tonight? I thought. I sniffed one armpit. Then the other. Then the first again. I have never skipped a bath since I’ve been here. And I really haven’t gotten hot or done anything to make me smelly today. I sniffed again. “I am not going to put cold water all over the core of my body right now,” I mouthed to the cockroach skittering undisturbed across my floor to hide under my slipper. A minute passed and I was still sniffing my pits. “Oh my gosh.” I said out loud. “I am actually doing this. I am actually standing naked and half soaped in the middle of my room, sniffing my armpits.” I poured my dirty suds into my “to-dump” water bucket and crawled into bed. Hygienic low. I would like to hope this will not be a regular occurrence for me, but I am afraid that with how much work it will be just for me to retrieve water at my permanent site, it will be even easier to justify not washing my armpits... Huh... I just made that whole story global knowledge.
Anyway, that’s the day to day here. Sat on a log today and washed my underpants beneath an avocado tree. Rainy season is late. Should be starting soon. Oh, also, about Swazi country music videos, I doubt they’d be on youtube, but on the off chance, you should probably look up “Ngiyabonga, music video” or some variation. It was the best one. It’s like a real American country music video. If it’s on there, you won’t miss it.
Thanks for reading up on me!! Salakahle (stay well)!!